When Everything Falls Apart, People Come Together

A Review of A Paradise Built in Hell by Rebecca Solnit

Rebecca Solnit’s A Paradise Built in Hell is a book about disasters — fires, earthquakes, terrorist attacks, hurricanes. But it’s not about destruction. It’s about what rises from the rubble when the institutions fail and the professionals disappear and the official channels break down.

What rises, she says, is us.

Not the panicked mobs we’ve been told to expect. Not Mad Max-style chaos. But something closer to mutual aid, spontaneous cooperation, neighborly kindness, and — yes — joy.

Solnit’s thesis is simple, radical, and deeply unsettling (especially if you’re someone who profits off the myth of the “thin veneer of civilization”): in the aftermath of disaster, most people don’t turn on each other. They turn toward each other.

And in that moment — outside of capitalism, outside of the grind, outside of the rigid hierarchies we’ve been taught to see as necessary — a different kind of society flickers into existence. One rooted in solidarity instead of scarcity. One that feels more human than whatever we had before the sirens started.


The Disaster Myth

We’ve all absorbed the disaster myth: when the lights go out, the looting begins. When the government falls silent, violence fills the vacuum. Civilization is a fragile thing, we’re told — one bad day away from collapsing into every-man-for-himself chaos.

Solnit methodically dismantles this myth. Not with theory, but with case studies: the 1906 San Francisco earthquake, the Halifax explosion of 1917, the Mexico City earthquake of 1985, 9/11 in New York City, Hurricane Katrina.

In every case, the same pattern emerges: ordinary people step up. They organize food distribution. They rescue neighbors. They share what they have. They build improvised clinics, kitchens, shelters. And often, the biggest obstacle isn’t panic or violence — it’s the official response. The government, the military, the elite classes who see the public not as helpers, but as threats.

Solnit’s point is devastatingly clear: the real danger isn’t the mob. It’s the state that fears the mob.


Everyday People, Extraordinary Acts

One of the most powerful things Solnit does is shift our attention away from “heroes” — the firefighters, the first responders, the officials — and toward the people who don’t get headlines. The neighbors. The janitors. The undocumented folks. The people who run toward danger because someone needs help and there’s no one else around.

These are the people who rebuild the social fabric, even as the physical one crumbles. They don’t do it for recognition. They do it because that’s what people do — unless they’ve been taught not to.

And that’s one of Solnit’s quiet but persistent arguments: that our society, in its everyday form, trains us not to be good to each other. We’re taught to compete, to distrust, to hoard. But in moments of collapse, that training gets interrupted — and something older, deeper, and more collective kicks in.

It’s not utopia. But it’s real. And it matters.


Joy in the Ruins

There’s a phrase that comes up again and again in the book — and it might be the most subversive part of the whole thing: disaster utopia.

Solnit collects stories of people who, in the middle of catastrophe, describe feeling more alive, more connected, more useful, more free than they ever did in “normal life.” Not because suffering is fun — but because the masks fall away. The roles disappear. And suddenly, you’re just a person among people, solving problems, feeding each other, making it work.

She talks about the way people miss the disaster — not the destruction, but the connection. The feeling of purpose. The spontaneous community. The lack of bureaucracy, branding, and bullshit. It’s like a glimpse of another world, and when it ends, returning to the old one feels... empty.

This is the real “paradise” she’s talking about — not a fantasy, but a reality that emerges when the structures built to control and isolate us temporarily go offline.

And the question that lingers long after the book ends is: what if we didn’t need a disaster to live that way?


Against the Command-and-Control Model

One of Solnit’s sharpest critiques is aimed at the top-down, militarized model of disaster response — the idea that control must be asserted, the public must be managed, and normalcy must be restored as quickly as possible.

She shows how this mindset often causes more harm than good. In San Francisco, soldiers shot civilians they assumed were looters. In New Orleans, police blocked evacuations and fired on people seeking safety. Again and again, officials see grassroots action as chaos, and chaos as something to be crushed — not understood or supported.

It’s not incompetence. It’s ideology.

It’s the belief that order only comes from above, that the public is dangerous, that people can’t be trusted. And it’s a belief that’s disproven by literally every story in this book.

Solnit argues for a different model — one that starts with the assumption that people want to help. That they’re capable of organizing. That they’re the experts of their own neighborhoods. That resilience is bottom-up, not top-down.


The Political Implications

This is a political book — but not in the narrow, partisan sense. Solnit isn’t pushing an agenda. She’s asking us to see differently.

To see that mutual aid isn’t charity — it’s power.
To see that community isn’t a feel-good add-on — it’s infrastructure.
To see that systems built on distrust and control can never offer the freedom they claim to protect.

And most importantly: to see that the world we want already exists — in glimpses. In the aftermath of a blackout. In the minutes after a crash. In the shelters, the kitchens, the makeshift clinics. In the moments when no one’s in charge and everyone steps up.

She’s not naive. She doesn’t romanticize suffering or disaster. But she also refuses to let fear define the story. Because fear is what justifies repression. Fear is what keeps people alone. Fear is what turns every neighbor into a potential threat.

And this book is a weapon against that fear.


What It Isn’t

Let’s be clear: this is not a how-to manual. It’s not going to teach you how to prepare for disaster or organize your block or build a mutual aid network (though it might inspire you to do those things). It’s more like a lens — a way of re-seeing the stories we’ve been told about what people are like when the rules disappear.

And it’s not fast-paced. Solnit is a digressive, associative writer. She follows threads. She lingers on details. She quotes poetry and philosophy and survivor testimonies with equal reverence. Sometimes it feels like a tapestry. Sometimes like a slow walk through a ruined city with someone pointing out the beauty in the cracks.

If you want tight argumentation and tidy conclusions, this isn’t that. But if you want something that will shift your mental furniture and haunt you in a good way — you’re in the right place.


Final Thoughts

A Paradise Built in Hell is one of those books that gives you a new pair of eyes. Not rose-colored. Not doom-colored. Just... clear.

It reminds you that the world we live in — the one of bosses, brands, borders, and hierarchies — is not the only possible one. That under pressure, people don’t collapse. They cohere. That we are more decent, more capable, more interdependent than we’re allowed to be most of the time.

And maybe — just maybe — the systems that fall apart during disasters aren’t worth rebuilding exactly as they were.

Maybe the real disaster is the normal we keep returning to.

Put this on the shelf next to Mutual Aid, Hope in the Dark, The Good Enough Job, and The Dawn of Everything. These are books that refuse to despair, but also refuse to lie. Books that name the cracks in the foundation — and the wildflowers growing through them.

Because maybe paradise isn’t somewhere we build after the storm.

Maybe it’s what happens when we finally stop pretending we don’t need each other.